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Picture Describe Everything

2011-02-04T06:14:00.000-08:00

My Journey

2010-12-14T09:47:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum.

Thank God because giving me the chances again and again. Nothing to say about mylife. New commitment, new journey and new life inconjunction with new Hijriah.

1. Fulltime counselor at SMK Sg Pasir, Sg Petani, Kedah

2. Postgraduate student (Master and Education in Counseling)

3. Partime Author in penulisan2u

Do visit this site. My journey about "part time author". Thanks!

http://www.penulisan2u.my/index.php?s=Ilham+Murabbi

Wish you all the best too.

Arguing

2010-11-05T23:46:00.000-07:00

Assalamuaikum. Just wanna share what I had read.

One of the biggest obstacles that we *all* have to face from the time to time is dealing with "Confrontation". And most of us can't stand it!! Fact is, you're not going to be able to 'win' every time ...and some people are so stubborn that they'll argue till they're blue in the face - even when they KNOW they are wrong! Do you know someone like this? I certainly do! In fact, many years ago...I was this person! Call it stubborn pride, call it ridiculous... whatever label you give it - there is ONE thing I can tell you with absolute 100% certainty: This behavior will inevitably result in a clash. If you ever find yourself on the receiving end of this stubbornness (or even if *you* are the stubborn one) -- the best way to move through the situation is to be "assertive". Assertive people are not rude, mean, cruel, and insensitive. Assertive people do not project a callous disrespect and disregard for everyone around them.

No.

Assertive people merely project their own humble awareness of their inherent worth; and everyone is worthwhile -even you.Respect for other people, empathy for their feelings, and recognition of their worth are all underpinnings of an assertive personality. Resentment, frustration, impatience, and anger all 'cloud' what could be a purely assertive act. So, what's the "trick" then? Whenever possible... waiting to speak or act until you can do it from a place of Calm Respect - f'ree of resentment, frustration, impatience, and anger, will transform the situation into one where everybody wins.

By the same token, simply 'waiting out' your negative feelings without taking measures to relieve yourself of them can lead to a build-up of negative emotions. This dangerous phenomenon is known as the "pressure-cooker" syndrome... When unexpelled negative emotions build up to the point where we "blow our top" -- usually in the wrong place at the wrong time and directed at the wrong people, in any case doing more harm than good.Being Genuinely Assertive requires being responsible for your thoughts and feelings... Being responsible for your thoughts and feelings does "not" mean blaming and unloading on others. It means 'taking responsibility' for the thoughts andfeelings we have and acting responsibly in accordance with them. In the case of the "pressure cooker" syndrome... it's our resentment and frustration with ourselves for 'putting up' with an unpleasant and intolerable scenario that leads to our inappropriate outbursts. It's ourselves we're mad at; not the other person. So don't take it out on them. Deal with the one responsible: yourself. Then and 'only' then can you deal responsibly with anything outside yourself. The Exciting News Is... Once you learn the ability to express your feelings respectfully and proactively, you'll no longer lose control to stubborn pride or inappropriate emotional outbursts. These are the qualities of being truly assertive.

Travelling, Study

2010-11-04T08:09:00.000-07:00

Assalamulaikum

Too much stories is in my heart. For the first, Al-fatihah to Mohd Farhan (Paan Lee), blogger's friend. He had passed away after hari raya. Good boy had returned to Allah S.W.T.

I just want to share about my travelling for three days. The 5 researchers (also my ex-lecturers) and I went to Quality Hotel for " research- instrument workhsop". It is not easy without any commitment for the research (busy). They are an excellent lecturers. I like the way they are thinking...By the way, I had arranged to go there, about budgeting, paperwork, invoice, approval from research management...it is my learning process. Definitely, I'm proud to see the research will success. What,....my bos and I had planned, become reality. Before this, I had plan to work as research assistant with my lecturers. Allah was listen to me. Thanks God!. Untill today, it means I had work 4 month with him, Dr.Nasir. He is (my bos (now), my ex-lecturer taught me alots. Thanks Dr! I feel in love about the research...enjoy and interesting...

Quality Hotel at KL is near by Sogo in the middle of the town. Best accomodation... I think. My stomach always full. Omai God!Comfortable room is the most important...But, I will go to counselling setting soon...I will let the research..Sad but happy (unstable feeling right?).About my master study also in the process....just trust in God...I had success for interview, counselor will be....(will go for further study + work ).

Happy Deepavali to all Malaysian especially my ex-Hindu's student

I wanna continue my crafting..facebook, watching television..Bye!

Crafting

2010-10-30T20:42:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum all...

Miss this blog damn much. Before let my fingers to do another work..I wanna tell you that this blog is still for my "english learning" but, I will put and sharing about the crafting, cooking, traveling too. It is my new hobbies like felt, sewing, and card craft. Thanks to bloggers for your concern and now I still find the materials to start my crafting. I think it is quite easy to learn as long as you're interested to do what do you like. Enjoy yourself and say " BUSY PERSON CAN ENJOY CRAFTING". It's my first try... I'm new crafter, so anyone who wanna share their ideas, come with me...

I Love damn Muchh..Muchiaaassszzzx.. to do these!

I love these...I hope one day I can do these!Ooo Yeahhh!Shomel-shomel...

(Picture from crafting blogger)

I found these buttons at Pekan Tanjong Malim

Only RM 5 but the colours is too old. I bought it to collect the craft items. It's difficult to find felt wool. Uarghh!

Anyone can suggest me where can I get these?

(FELT Wool)

I am shock that many woman like felt craft. Here are information about the felt that I am searching google. Read this..

Felt is a non-woven cloth that is produced by matting, condensing and pressing woolen fibres. While some types of felt are very soft, some are tough enough to form construction materials. Felt can be of any colour, and made into any shape or size.

Many cultures have legends as to the origins of feltmaking. Sumerian legend claims that the secret of feltmaking was discovered by Urnamman of Lagash. The story of Saint Clement and Saint Christopherrelates that while fleeing from persecution, the men packed their sandals with wool to prevent blisters. At the end of their journey, the movement and sweat had turned the wool into felt socks.

Feltmaking is still practised by nomadic peoples in Central Asia and northern parts of East Asia, where rugs,tents and clothing are regularly made. Some of these are traditional items, such as the classic yurt, while others are designed for the tourist market, such as decorated slippers. In the Western world, felt is widely used as a medium for expression in textile art as well as design, where it has significance as an ecological textile.

Construction

Felt is made by a process called wet felting, where the natural wool fibre is stimulated by friction and lubricated by moisture (usually soapy water), and the fibres move at a 90 degree angle towards the friction source and then away again, in effect making little "tacking" stitches. Only 5% of the fibres are active at any one moment, but the process is continual, and so different 'sets' of fibres become activated and then deactivated in the continual process.

Back to Blog

2010-05-22T12:32:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

Hye uolls...

No time, no blogging.Huh!

By the way, the practicum is over. I'm waiting for my graduation day. Now, I need to prepare for my new "task". National Reasearch Innovative Competition (NRIC) is around the corner. I'm the one. Thank God, because gives me the chances, and I got the silver medal for "Research Student's Innovation 2010". And now I believe my life will change and I hope my dream will be come true.

Tomorrow, I will go to UPSI and 25th May 2010, I will be at USM. Wish me luck. I always saying that " Saya berhak peroleh apa yang saya inginkan, kerana telah 23 tahun saya berusaha untuk mencapai keinginan dan cita-cita saya. Saya yakin pada Allah, kasihankan orang-orang yang rajin berusaha". Succes and failure is normal. As a human, we must effort and struggle till the end of life. Believe in yourself.

Now, I'm staying at Meru, Kapar, Klang before going to UPSI.

Hehe...crazy mode right?

"Big Heart With Fantastic Dream"

Well Done!

2010-02-25T12:02:00.000-08:00

Bismillahirrahimanirrahim.

For a long time I did not write any words for this blog. Now I'm big hearted to appreciate my younger brother because was put the best for STPM. Lastly, he get what he want, CGPA 3.58. Well done!I'm the eldest and I'm the role model to my brothers. This is the first step for you to follow others steps and never look back. I hope you will be someone soon and I hope my brother will always succes in his life. Just one word I want to say " Our parent will proud when three of us succes in our life and be the best son and daughter to our parent"I will lend my ears and my hand for you, and I'm happy for you, Well Done!!!.For sure, papa willl happy for your succes!

Thanks to Al-Mighty God.

Motivate My Self

2010-01-15T09:45:00.000-08:00

A story.

Do you really believe that your dreams will come true?Last Monday, I was enjoying lunch with a friend. She has some awesome dreams about creating her own special style of jewelry. She has taken some pretty major steps in her life to make it come true....She left her fulltime job so she can go and study jewelry design. She did that without having any job to go to, or even without having been accepted into the course. It takes real "guts" to be able to follow your dream and to make it happen. It all starts with a dream....

"Big Heart With Fantastic Dream"

I Want it Wateva Happen

2009-12-27T06:38:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum

It doesn't matter what your problems are. What is important is the way you look at them, what you think about them and what you believe about yourself. Yes!I will face the trouble ;is my friend because to succes and to grasp my dream is not easy. I hope!

AIM AND MEMORIES NEVER DIES

2009-12-03T22:48:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum.

Hye to all bloggers. My finger miss so much to dance on this blog. I'm staying at Tanjong Malim for this semester break. I got a job. Truely, I don't like if I did not spend my time wisely and let my time fly away. I have many plans before I leave UPSI. It is not mean I'm not love my family and leave my hometown. Love so much to stay at home. But I have planning. Now, I'm working at Institut Peradaban Melayu, UPSI. Experience is everything in the process to be a good human. I need to make evolution for myself. I'm working here because I want to decipline myself. I always late to class while I was a student in UPSI. So, I'm trying to motivate and train back myself to be more dicipline before I'm in my field; practicum. I like to think out of the box as long I will aim my focus. But, in planning my future, I need to arrange my steps smoothly. Many hopes and dreams I want to archieve. So, what I have do and to do now is, none stop to learn. It is values added for myself.

I'm aware that I'm the eldest. I have many responsibilities to my family. My father was pass away and I have the only one, My mum. I have two brothers and I come from moderate family. My father taught me to survive myself and be more indipendent. So, I learn alots from my father. I don't want to look back to grasp my aim. Truely, I want to be someone in educational field. The carier that I want to archieved is "professional lecturer" soon. I love to join the research and education. So, I need to focus well. So, I hope Allah will give me a hand to myself. InsyaALLAH. I want my brothers also success. I want to grasp my father's dreams. I'm always pray for myself, my parent, my sibling, my teachers and lecturers and my friends too. I hope we will success with barakah. InsyAllah.

What I need to focus is:

1. My job as editor (with a writer), and to get my income (Institut Peradaban Melayu)
2. My plan with Faiz to make research in writing and my lecturer will help us too (for my part is "HUBUNGAN MANUSIA DENGAN PENCIPTA)
3. Learn English (learning by writing via blog's medium)

I will spend my time wisely. I can feel that my dreams will come true. InsyAllah...!!!

And for practicum, I will survive..InSyaALLAH!

Truely, I am very sad because I can't together with my comrades to come to the class as routine. It is the last semester for us. This night Bakrie, Fauzi, Jehan, Kak Sarah,Kamal, Mail and I will go to KFC. Tomorrow they will back to home. Memories with them I can't forget and others too. I am sure that I will miss to sit together in the class. Here are some of picture that we went to picnic on yesterday (I will put after back from work) and hang out at KFC.

Picnic

KFC Hour

Like a ball

Mr.Joker..haha

Mr.Plump..hehe..

Mrs. Sporting

Which one my drink?

Candite lol

Future counselors

Posing..the bottle is not mine..hehe

UPSI Model, Bakrie

UPSI new lecturer soon, Mr Fauzi..hehe

UPSI new TNC soon, Jehang..hehe

UPSI new lecturer too, Kak Sarah..hehe

and myself..with big heart to survive this life

"I AM FROM NOTHING TO BE EVERYTHING"

Trip To United Kingdom and Europe Offers

2009-11-30T13:23:00.000-08:00

We have 8 holiday packages to accommodate almost any need, or you can let us create a custom travel package. This package include accomodation, foods, insurance,tourist guide for whole holidays. Call us to find out more about these and other packages, or let us know where you want to go and we can create just the right custom package for you!The price is among RM 2500 - RM 3000 per person for every packages.Unbelievable!But its true! You can travel by individual or by grouping (students, association, etc). Please do contact/ Email me for information(Afitiemay86@yahoo.com), 017-9261440. Let's to read the packages below :

Package 1- Europe Grand Tour 3 Countries (France-Belgium-Holland) – 7 days. This package runs throughout the year. No date fixed for you. You can travel on the date that suits you.

Tentatives :

Day 1
Depart to Paris
(1st Night)
Day 2
1 day visit to Disneyland Paris
(2nd Night)
Day 3
1 day tour to Paris (Paris Sight seeing)
(3rd Night)
Day 4
1 day tour to Brussels (Brussels Sight
seeing)
(4th Night)
Day 5
1 day tour to Amsterdam (Amsterdam
Sight seeing)
(5th Night)
Day 6
1 day visit to
Alkmaar//Volendam/Rottherdam
(6th Night)
Day 7
Depart to UK

What is Included in this Package?

a. Transfer from and to airport for arrival and departure
b. Accommodation in 3 or 4 star hotel or apartment or mobile home (if you want to experience summer time in Europe)
c. Breakfast , lunch and dinner with choice of Western & Malaysian & Arabian foods (Halal Foods also available)
d. Entrance tickets to
1. Eifel Tower
2. Louvre Museum
3. Disneyland Paris
4. Mini Euro in Brussels
5. Kuekenhoff (for ONLY trip that take place between 20 March to
20 May Every Year)
6. Cheese Museum in Alkmaar
7. Canal Cruise in Amsterdam
8. Madame Tussauds in
Amsterdam
e. Tourist guide
g. Traveling bag from Perantauholidays

Package 2- Swiss Panorama; Visit Switzerland–6 days.This package runs throughout the year. No date fixed for you. You can travel on the date that suits you. Switzerland has always been considered as ‘heaven on earth’ – one of the most beautiful countries in the world with very beautiful people. Hidden amongst the Swiss Alps and surrounded by two great lakes is the city of Interlaken. Blue water,winding roads, dense forests, small brooks, big mountains, pristine snow.

Tentatives :

Day 1
Flight from UK to Swiss
(1st Night)
Day 2
1 day Tour to Geneva
(2nd Night)
Day 3
1 day Tour to Interlaken/Luzern
(3rd Night)
Day 4
1 day Tour to Swiss Alps
(4th Night)
Day 5
1 day Tour to Zurich
(5th Night)
Day 6
Flight to UK

What is Included in this Package?
a. Transfer from and to airport for arrival and departure
b. Flight ticket from London to Geneva
c. Accommodation in 3 or 4 star hotel, apartment or mobile home (if you want to experience summer time in Europe)
d. Breakfast , lunch and dinner with choice of Western & Malaysian &
Arabian foods (Halal Foods also available)
e. Entrance tickets to all attractions mentioned in highlight
f. Tourist guide
g. Traveling bag from perantau holidays.

Package 3- Majestic Italy; Visit Italy –6 days. This package runs throughout the year. No date fixed for you. You can travel on the date that suits you.

Tentatives :

Day 1
Flight from UK to Italy
(1st Night)
Day 2
1 day Tour to Rome
(2nd t Night)
Day 3
1 day Tour to Rome
(3rd Night)
Day 4
1 day Tour to Pisa
(4th Night)
Day 5
1 day Tour to Venice
(5th Night)
Day 6
Local Flight to United Kingdom

Package 4- Exploring Paris & Disneyland; Visit Paris –6 days. This package runs throughout the year. No date fixed for you. You can travel on the date that suits you.

Tentatives :

Day 1
Depart to Paris
(1st Night)
Day 2
1 day Tour to Paris
(2nd Night)
Day 3
1 day Tour to Paris
(3rd Night)
Day 4
1 day Visit to Disneyland
(4th Night)
Day 5
1 day Visit to Disneyland
(4th Night)
Day 6
Depart to UK

What is Included in this Package?

a. Transfer Cost for transportation & hotel for arrival and departure
b. Accommodation in 3 or 4 star hotel, apartment or mobile home (if you want to experience summer time in Europe)
c. Breakfast , lunch and dinner with choice of Western & Malaysian & Arabian foods (Halal Foods also available)
d. Entrance tickets to all destinations mentioned in highlight
e. Touris guide

Package 5- Expression of UK Visit United Kingdom –8 days.This package runs throughout the year. No date fixed for you. You can travel on the date that suits you.

Tentatives :

Day 1
1 day Tour in London
(1st Night)
Day 2
1 day Tour in London
(2nd Night)
Day 3
1 day Tour in Manchester
(3rd Night)
Day 4
1 day Tour in Liverpool
(4th Night)
Day 5
1 day Tour in Edinburgh Scotland
(5th Night)
Day 6
1 day Tour in Glasgow Scotland
(6th Night)
Day 7
Depart to London

What is Included in this Package?

a. Transportation for transfer and hotel for arrival and departure
b. Accommodation in 3 or 4 star hotel, apartment or mobile home (if you want to experience summer time in Europe)
c. Breakfast , lunch and dinner with choice of Western & Malaysian & Arabian foods (Halal Foods also available)
d. Entrance tickets to all attractions mentioned in highlight
e. Tourist guide
f. Traveling bag from Perantauholidays

Package 6- The Best of South Spain; Visit Andalusia/Cordoba/Granada/Gibraltar 7 days. This package runs throughout the year. No date fixed for you. You can travel on the date that suits you.

Tentatives:

Day 1
Flight from UK to Malaga Spain
(1st Night)
Day 2
1 day Tour to Cordoba
(2nd Night)
Day 3
1 day Tour to Cordoba
(3rd Night)
Day 4
1 day Tour to Granada
(4th Night)
Day 5
1 day Tour to Granada
(5th Night)
Day 6
1 day Tour to Gibraltar
(6th Night)
Day 7
Flight to UK

What is Included in this Package?

a. Transportation for transfer and hotel
for arrival and departure
b. Local flight from UK to Malaga Spain
c. Accommodation in 3 or 4 star hotel, apartment or mobile home (if you want
to experience summer time in Europe)
d. Breakfast , lunch and dinner with choice of Western & Malaysian & Arabian foods (Halal Foods also available)
e. Entrance tickets to all attractions mentioned in highlight
f. Tourist guide
g. Traveling bag from Perantauholidays

Package 7- Historic Turkey Visit Istanbul/Ankara/Bursa –7 days. This package runs throughout the year. No date fixed for you. You can travel on the date that suits you.

Tentatives:

Day 1
Local Flight to Istanbul from United
Kingdom
(1st Night)
Day 2
1 day Tour to Istanbul
(2nd Night)
Day 3
1 day Tour to Istanbul
(3rd Night)
Day 4
1 day Tour to Ankara
(4th Night)
Day 5
1 day Tour to Ankara
(5th Night)
Day 6
1 day Tour to Bursa
(6th Night)
Day 7
Flight to United Kingdom

What is Included in this Package?

a. Transfer from and to airport for arrival and departure
b. Local flight from UK to Istanbul
c. Flight ticket from London to Rome/Pisa/Milan/Venice from United Kingdom
d. Accommodation in 3 or 4 star hotel, apartment or mobile home (if you want to experience summer time in Europe)
e. Breakfast , lunch and dinner with choice of Western & Malaysian & Arabian foods (Halal Foods also available)
f. Entrance tickets to all attractions mentioned in highlight
g. Tourist guide
h. Traveling bag from Perantauholidays

Package 8- Custom/Tailor Made Package. This package runs throughout the year. No date fixed for you. You can travel on the date you prefer. Can’t find a package to suit your needs? Let us create a custom package for you. Tell us where you want to go, how many days and nights you want to spend on your trip, and what kinds of tours and sightseeing you’re most interested in. We’ll create a package with your own tour guides and everything! Prices vary. Group rates are available. Call us for more information!

Our Specialties

-We are a well- established travel companybased in United Kingdom and expert in all European travel destinations.
-We provide the most efficient and friendly tourist guide for all trips.
-No time and date scheduled for your trip. You can book at anytime and travel on the date that suits you.
-You can tailor you holidays for minimum 3 days. No maximum day is required.
- We can arrange single holiday booking up to the maximum of 35 people.
-We arrange travel by car, Mpv, minibus, coach, flight and ferry to all destinations in Europe.
-Transfer from and to Airport for arrival and departure
-Choice of foods & drinks from traditional English or Western to Malaysian foods.
-We can also provide HALAL foods if required
-We provide a very comfortable accommodation for single/couple/ family/group.
-If you prefer to prepare your own foods during trip we can arrange accommodation with cooking facilities.
- We can arrange cheap flight from Malaysia for you or any destination in the world. Please email for quotation.
-We can also arrange travel insurance for your safe journey. Please email for quotation.

How to Book?

-We accept any single/couple/family/group booking.
- For individual/family/ group booking, a deposit 40% of total amount per person is required and the rest of payment must be paid 3 weeks before departure. Deposit will not be return if you cancel the trip unless you find replacement.
- Please send us your requested date first to check the availability in our trip schedule.
- We will send to you a pack of registration form via email to fill in
- Would you prefer to have your own custom holidays please send to us the details of your itinerary along with other request such as places to visit, type of accommodation and foods & drinks preferred. We will contact you for further discussion and provide you with a fresh quotation.

Do not worry about your budget! This packages is not include flight cost. But the fee depend on flight offer. On May, the flight fee, Air ASIA only RM 900 (including flight tax). Overall RM 2+++ for return. Totally, for trip, you need to have RM 4000 you can travel to United Kingdom and Europe.

Please do contact/ YM/ Email me for information(Afitiemay86@yahoo.com), 017-9261440.

Million thank you to all readers.

The Last Moment

2009-10-26T20:23:00.000-07:00

Myself

With the white rose

Judges on that night...huhu

Try to choose and choose who is the winner..they were catwalk too fast and made me difficult to give the marks..hahaa..belasah ajaa...

Laip is joker..uhuhhu

Try to candite myself..uhhuhu

Yati and me

Myself without spekk daa..

Iman..upsi model..huhuhu

Jehang the havoc guy at Taman Bernam

Me and Sal...ex-housemate

Me and Dila

Me and my friends

Yati and me

Myself in white shawl

We're Taman Bernam's gang..but Im the only one girl..huhuhu

Me and Illyani

Salmi and I

Wanie and I...so sweet

UKLK Team

The last moments that never end..what we have done is the experiences for us and friendship among us is forever. I hope that we will success in our field and go through to be an excellent counselors. Great!!!!

Nothing

2009-09-30T11:49:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum and good afternoon.

For a long time I didn't jott down any entry via this blog. The time is fullfil with abundance of assignments. I was stayed at library from the morning untill the night. I'm involve in stress mood because alot of assignment still didn't finish. At the same times, thesis need to settle down. To avoid from comfort zone, I am stayed at library. If I returned to home, I will sleepy. Huh! It just on purpose to finish my works. Stop! Eventhough I write about the busy life, I still need to go on. It is the last semester and I will be my last moment as upsian. To look the difference of person is, look how the person manage the time wisely.

I was register one of my blog for IT education competition through the blog. It only just spending my time. I hope, this semester will be ending by great moments. I do not have any ideas to write. So, wait for my next entries. I'm tired and need to sleep now because at 8.00 am I need to go to lecture. See you.

With that, Thank You.
Truely,
"Big Heart With A Fantastic Dream"

Today's youth experiencing high levels of stress

2009-09-27T23:30:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

I got this article from depression blog. It was attract myself to read again and again. I like the way the blog author use the simple english and made me understand what he/she want to say. So, let's to read!

Youngsters today are experiencing high levels of stress. The sources of stress are diverse for youngsters in different age levels.

Among 13-17 year olds, academics is by far the most commonly mentioned source. Among 18-24 year olds, it is jobs and financial matters. Academic and career related pressures are ruining the life of young people. An average teenager today wants to excel in school, perform well in sports, keep up with the latest trends and choose the right higher education stream. Youngsters in there 20’s want a well paid job, they want to start saving for buying assets and also want to choose the right life partner. Added to this is the pressure to try and meet the expectations of the parents.

Another type of stress which is latent in the minds of youth but still present is the threat of terrorism and vandalism. Females particularly feel unsafe in many public places and this adds to their stress level. After a series of terrorist activities which have rocked the world, the fear is nagging in the minds of young people who find themselves helpless and not able to contribute towards its eradication.

According to surveys young females are more stressed out then males and incidences of high stress level are more in urban areas. The incidences of anxiety and depression are rising at an alarming rate and we keep hearing of teenager suicide cases around the world. Cut throat competition to keep up with peers is robbing youngsters of the pleasures of being young and healthy.

~Afiti~

Piscas

2009-08-16T07:26:00.000-07:00

New experiences for me. I do not have much time. I will update this entry later. Bye

Sleepless? 'Thinking' The Night Away?.

2009-07-07T08:59:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

It is quite difficult to surf the internet due to server does not working well. Whatever was happened, it just an ordeal, as long as I need to be more patient to obtain the knowledge and input via this technology. I read an email from Noel John again. Here, I would like to share with the blog readers about sleepless? 'Thinking' The Night Away?.

Let's to read!

Do you have trouble falling asleep?Does your mind keep shifting into overdrive whenever you lie down at night? Do you sleep poorly, or repeatedly wake up throughout the night? Are you tired when you wake up in the morning?In fact, are you tired all the time?It doesn't have to be this way.You can actually learn to fall asleep quickly, effortlessly, and without drugs or sleeping pills. And you can also learn to sleep soundly through the night, waking up refreshed and revitalized on just 6 or 7 hours of blissful sleep.

And the best part?It's actually amazingly simple to do. Just press 'play.' That's right!With Sleep Tracks, you can just press "Play" on your CD or MP3 player, and drift off to sleep in no time... Real-Mind-Power-Skills/Sleepless

Here's what others are saying:

"I now fall asleep quickly, usually within the first twenty
minutes. I love it!!!" --Joanne Spruyt, Kamloops, BC, Canada,
August 8, 2007

"To my utter amazement, I have been sleeping better everyday and
even napping for the first time in 30 years." --Randi W (age 58),
Layton, Utah, September 17, 2007

The easiest, fastest and healthiest way to naturally fall asleep is to use precisely designed audio soundtracks, known as Sleep Tracks. These tracks are safely engineered to guide your brain into sleep by inducing immediate AND long-term changes in your brain activity. They do this with an increasingly popular (but still little-known, even after 30 years) technology called "brainwave entrainment". Here's how it works...Scientists have found that different brainwave "frequencies" are associated with different mental states.

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Truely

"Big Heart With Fantastic Dream"

SoMetimes it is Good To Get Angry

2009-06-15T07:53:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

Email from Noel John.

It's been said that as many as 80% of divorces are the result of money disagreements. I can believe it. Take any marriage, even those that are totally solid and healthy, and add money problems to the mix and you'll see the marriage start to show signs of strain really fast.

I'm sure you already know money problems create constant unwanted emotions. If you can learn how to manage money and also manage your emotional reactions to unexpected financial situations (both good and bad), you're well on your way to success and freedom.

If you can survive and fight your way out of mighty financial disasters you'll be able to face
any problem with less fear. Unfortunately there isn't any way to remove the emotion from difficult money problems. As I've written about before, my money problems began doing a 180 turn when I changed emotions.

Almost overnight I shifted from fear to anger.Fear isn't motivating and helps keep you stuck in the same rut. Anger is dangerous, if you're directing it at another person or at yourself, but if you're directing it at your money situation, it can empower you to make change like nothing else can. When you let yourself realize that you deserve better, that even though you made mistakes change is still possible, that shift in mindset will make all the difference. So the next time you feel despair over finances, try directing your energy full force against the problem, and not the people involved.

Quietly resolve to visualize the best possible outcome, tell yourself that you and your loved ones deserve that outcome, and then work like heck to make it happen. To help keep you center and focused, watch our videos a few minutes each day.

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Truely

"Big Heart With Fantastic Dream"

Laughter Therapy

2009-05-20T07:05:00.001-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

Today I want to share with you a relaxation technique, and I'm also finding
YouTube a great resource for this technique.

What is it?

Laughter.

In fact, laughter is so healing that there is something out there called Laughter Yoga. It involves laughing for no reason. I can't quite get into that idea. It's so much more enjoyable to listen to or watch something funny.

There are so many videos on YouTube that can make you laugh. Now, everyone's sense of humor is different, so I hope you enjoy these, but forgive me if they're not quite your cup of tea.

Still, not many would fail to be amused by a baby's laughter. Here are two short videos that truly crack me up, while warming my heart:

"Baby Laughing at the Wii"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_mBLWpdwnI

"Best ever laughing baby"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wIEihDAcpU

I can't help laughing out loud with them! If you like them, there are countless laughing babies on YouTube. Just look at the "related videos" to the right or search for "laughing babies" and you'll find an abundance of adorable babies laughing their sweet little heads off! Our subliminal videos won't make you laugh out loud, like these videos, but they will make you feel good - and bring you an abundance of prosperity and well-being. Now that's relaxing!

This email from Noel John. Thank You.

Questions

2009-04-29T13:52:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

Just a short messages. These are types for the TIME question.

A:When the times will come?
B: The times will come or not?
C: I want to back to my last memory
D: I hate this time
E: I love this moment (Time)
F: I am apprieciating what I was through by the time
G: It is better If....
H : What is the TIME now? (Arif Q's)..hehe

All the questions is comes from the normal people with unrational and rational thinking because human need the TIME. Without the times, we can't breath in this earth.

Truely,
"Big Heart With A Fantastic Dream"

Empower Yourself

2009-04-29T04:03:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

Self empowering is vital to us as one machanism to build up our personality. By empowering yourself, your will get many benefit and feedback to improve yourself. The varieties ways you can do to realize it. I will analysis how to empower yourself in three dimensions.

First, empower your cognitive. The way you think, it is showing your personality. To be a creative and critise thinker, you must have a lots of knowledge. The knowledge is belongs to whom; which is like to reading and finding experiences. The formula for being a good reader is, you get ready with 5Q's (What, Who, Which, Whom, Where). Not only that, by seeing others, you will have many potential to empower your cognitive. While you see others, try to look what they are doing and try to process your cognitive as well. It is the free gift for you! Cognitive's training also is need. Try to spend your time to play some games that encourage you to think; like chess, sahiba, drawing and so on.

Next, empower your behaviour. Everyone will spot at you if you are have good attitudes. To be a pioneer, you need to spend your time with positive social habits. Avoid from the gengsterism, playing truant the classes, smoking, and join good activities. On the other hand, try to close to our Creator and believe that; He will care of us. Please appreciates yourself and your parent. Respect others is also the way to empower yourself and try to communicate with others as well. Genuine to yourself and many people will like you. But do not hypocrite. We are not the best, but we can put our best to learn.

Empower your affective is also one of the process to be a good human. Stress management is need because If you are stressed, you will face many problems. Recently, many programmes about Emotion and Spiritual Quotient. So, you can join to learn and manage your emotion and spiritual. It is the one way for you to gain your affective effectively. No one can change your life except yourself!

Empower yourself!

With that, Thank You.
Truely,
"Big Heart With A Fantastic Dream"

Undergraduate

2009-04-28T04:07:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

I would like to share about the student's life challenging. The wonderful moments is; you are appreaciates your campus life. An excellent students not only a bookworm, but you need to active. It is good if you're get both of it. The reasons you do not have the chances, too busy, a lot of assignments it is normal because it is your responsibilities. If you say that you're not interest to join activities, you will loss. Yes! Our priority is to study but it is the value added for you. You will not develop, if your routine just attending the class.

There a some tips how you want to be an active undergraduate. First, join any club. From that, you will arrange many activities to do. It is the good advantages for you to train and improves yourself to handle the activities. With that, you can get many experiences.You can learn a lot!

Do not be just a follower in activities, but try to join the organisations. The best experiences is you learn the situation in organisation and you will know to handle it. Remember! Maybe you will face some difficulties to adapt yourself with others around you. But, this is the bonus for you because you will learn something in your life. You will train your communication skills ; how to communicate with others and the life as a representatives. It is wonderful moments. It is not an easy to join organisation, but you can try. Believe that you will get something for yourself soon.

Next, you need to be hardworking. If you are hardworking, many people will respect you. But, please be aware that maybe some people will take advantage to be a bystander and do not want to work with you and it is your role to attract your partner to settle the works together. Remember that, you cannot work alone in organisation because you need to help each others and work together. You need to hardwork to help others and please cope from prejudice. Once you help others, others will help you soon.

Besides, try to manage your time effectively. If you have many programmes in one time, please devide the job properly with other members. Maybe you will face some difficulties. But, it is your role as long you do not have any quarrel and the consideration is yours. With that, you will learn to manage your cognitives and affectives smoothly. Automatically, you will learn how to manage your time if you are busy. The correlation among the members is need because you need to understand each others.

You need to know your accountabilities and please do not pass your accountabalities to others because you will show your weakness. Others will not respects you and be realistic. If you just want to be a leader, you can't because the leader need to work too. The best is, you are working together. If you can't catch up, please tell to them as long they will understand you.

Lastly, try to be a pioneer. If you are handle some programmes, try to invite all students, not only some people can join your programmes. Beneficiance is need to all and your programmes will give some effect to others, it is the best. What the problems is, some programmes just involve certain students and it is not holistic. So, try to be a pioneer to others. After the programmes, you need to do a postmortem to estimate about the programmes.

These are some tips for you how to be an effective undergraduate because you will know many accomplishments and new skills before you are going to the setting. You will! What you gives, you will get back. Thank you.

Truely,
"Big Heart With A Fantastic Dream"

Lovely Grandmother

2009-04-26T13:55:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

This silent morning, the collague's residence still on the bed. Nothing to do at 4.00 a.m and by streching the head forward to the window, nothing can I see. Empty morning. I had listened someone coughing. I can't close my eyes, actually. What happened to me? I did not take rice for 2 days. I do not have any mood to go to cafetaria. Just eating the bread and Maggi. Perhaps, calories in my body will decrease. Maybe, tomorrow I will take the rice. I miss my granny alot. What she is doing now?With whom she sleeps? My grandfather died since I was in form 4. My granny is too old now. She is alone in her house. But, my granny's brother and her sister's home is near by hers. I think she is missing me too. For along time I did not back to my hometown, Thailand. History of mine is there. I like to eat and cook with her. While I am eating, she will wait and will look at me with a sweet smiles. I will invited her to join. Maybe, she likes to see her grand daughter to eat first. We are sharing alots! Many histories about our family she told to me. I will patiently listened to her and she take care of myself since I was too young, 3 years old, I live with her. She will give me a bottle of milk before I sleep. Untill now, I can see the history of milk's bottle when I return to my home village, Thailand. She was keeping the milk's bottle as long as, I will remember that I was live with her while I am a younger.

Everywhere she goes, I will follow her and she will not leave me alone. She will sleep with me and when I need her, she will come. She cares of myself until my ages 7 years. But, even my ages 7 years, I still back to my hometown and we are very close. I will cry If my mum brought me back to my home. How close I am, with her? I hope, she is in a good health. I always pray to her as long she is well. I miss her and I want to visit her soon when the holidays come. I will wait for the best holidays with her.

It is all about my grand mother, Hajjah Safiyah Bt Haji Walong, 80 years.

English Forum

2009-04-25T10:28:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

I am reading for the next chapter for 4P subject. I need a breath of fresh air. My mind very tired. Better to stop! So, without wasting my time, I had joined the english forum by surfing the internet to release my mind. I hope with a big heart, I can improve my language soon by joining this forum; who want to learn english. A forum for everyone interested in English will help me. I do not know who are administrator for this forum. Very good forum board. Neglect it. So funny, I had killed two birds with one stone. But, one bird was died ( 4P subject) because I had focused for forum. It is okay to get back my mood.

Truely,
"Big Heart With A Fantastic Dream"

Grasp The Stars

2009-04-25T03:25:00.000-07:00

I sit alone at an old bench
My fingers draw the stars at the white sand
I look and I smile alone
The stars that I was draw very beautiful
But I cannot touch the stars
Because it just an illusion and just only a sketch

I sit alone at the beach
My fingers touch the beach
And dip to the water
Very cold and the water drop one by one
The waves come and the drop water from my fingers
goes by the heavy waves

I sit alone at the flowers garden
Many beautiful flowers
I love to pluck the flower but I think I will hurt them
So, I just smell the pink rose
Many thorn and It will hurt me too
I was keep my smile to look this scenery
To go far through this journey in this garden

Because many experiences I was faced
Either I want to draw the star or want to smell the rose
Certaintly it is not an illusion
Because I will touch the rose's thorn
Even it will hurt me
As long my big illusion will be possible
And I will use the thorn to draw the stars
Because life is a journey not a destination
Think possible you will get the possible results
The times will come

"It is better to love what you do and find occasional fault than to never live happy at all. The entire motive for becoming a success is to experience joy and self-satisfaction as you advance. If you continue striving towards the things you are passionate about, you will eventually find what you are looking for."

Poem wrote by,
Truely,
"Big heart With A Fantastic Dream"

Confidential

2009-04-25T02:45:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.

This day is precious day for myself enough. No more stress but the only one thing that I need to focuses is for my killer subject. But, this day totally I am taking a rest. Perhaps, I will relax untill this evening because I need to free before I want to make my smart revison. Smart? Really?Huhu. So, this time I will get more relaxs.Hahaha. But, at 8.00 p.m I will start to focus back.

I love to write again. This is about confidentiality. Confidentiality is very important and what the scale you want to say that your are good secret keeper and a good confidential? 1-10? Counseling teach me more about confidentiality. For a 22 years I breath, I am very lucky because still have good friends but, I do not care who want to know about my self because I do not have many secret and I am also do not like gossips about others! Too much wasting time, right?But, what the confidential for myself is care about others secret and confidential. Once you burst out others secret, It is bad personality and it show your weakness. Especially for counselor need to be a private human because they need to aware about their client privacy inspite of counselor need to give information if emergency cases.

On the other hand, confidentiality is need in counseling group. There are two issues regarding confidentiality. First the leader ethical for keeping material confidential and the leader lack of total control regarding members keeping matters confidential. It is unethical if the leader divulge information to anyone except any cases. There are exceptions to this rule.

Whatever in this life, we need to think twicely before we talk. Because, once we talk, many we will share. So, find the true person to share your privacy. We need to be more becareful before we ashamed. Confidential is everything. Allah will keep your disgrace if you keeping other disgrace. Insyaallah.

Let's think:

"Being personable is a key ingredient to accomplishing the respect of others. It's important for you to be able to get along with as many different types of people as possible. By doing so you will find it much easier to get the support when you are attempting to lead others to the promise land."

Truely,
"Big heart With A Fantastic Dream"

Social Networking

2009-04-24T22:15:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum. Hye!

Today I woke up very late because last night I cannot sleep well. Nothing trouble in my mind, but maybe I am a blog walker like to read others blogs. I woke up while I had stomachace. So, I run quickly to the ladies. Maybe I ate too much noodle for my dinner. Hye guys! I do not want to bubling, too much. Let's focus for our discussion topic. I am cutting off my self right now. Hoho

What your opinion about social networking? I was read form donutz 's blog about this topic and I like it. So, this ideas come from her. Let's read what the content from her blog.

"The word of Social Networking maybe is not a strange word to be heard. The social networking program is very popular among the people both in the developed countries or countries in the developing because we can easily find a person we looking for or find a new friend or even do business cooperation with various people from various countries in the world without have to spend a lot of money to make a phone call to other country, all you need to do is have an internet connection at home."

But she (donutz) was focuses for acobay networking.

So,I (Afiti) think I should explain about my opinion too. Social networking for the counseling perspectives is you need to started your relationship with others. That's mean relationship among human and human. Do not too shy to start it. Maybe some of you do not like to link with others, so from now we need to do it. It is too easy to start just one smile you will know others because when you smile others will interest to speak with you. What the benefit for , you will know soon. Next, try to speak with others. While you speak, you need to know the content. What the content you needs to discuss? First, maybe you can ask someone about his/her background and make sure that you know other persons with a positive thinking. Do not too prejudice to others and try to build the relationship fidelity. InsyaAllah, Allah will care both of you. Try to speak one by one as long as others will understand to you and do not too over. The tips is, you need to humble while talking to others and try to learn smoothly. Please make sure that you're good listener too. So, others will feel comfortable with you. Betterly, try to talk something is from you heart about an issues and do not too emotional. It is not mean you know many people you are like publisity. Not! It is not mean you want to famous. Totally not! Because your personality is social dominant and you are easy going it is the package for you too. You need to low your egoistic while talking with others. If you do not have this package, how? I was explain to you is it, to start with a smile and do not shy to talk. But it is not mean you need to talkative. Over talkative is also big problems. Huhu.

Social networking is important for you in you social life especially for those who are working in social fields like counselor, teacher, politician and others. I think If you are in emergency case, surely you want to contact the people who are experts to handle it. So, this is the chances for you and that's why social networking is important. As a student, social networking with your teachers or lecturers also crutial. It is not mean you want to get best mark from them, it is totally fault. Do not use this advantage for your personal interest but social networking will give you win-win situation to both of you. Maybe you can plan other project to do If you know many people and you also will easy to realise it.

You need to avoid the social networking to corrupt others. Eg: Your friend is a police. You are involved in criminal and you contact him to ask a help as long he will help you free from the law. It is not professional and from ethic's perspectives, you are not good in social networking because you are maladaptives. So, strenghten social networking in positive ways and you will get many benefits. It is not loss to you if you recognizable many people. Instead of, you will get many benefits because in this recent life, you cannot live alone. So, social networking is very important to us and I hope you will be good social networker.

I am so sorry If I have done many grammar mistakes. But, before I want to go study to abroad, I want to learn english. Just my dreams. Who wants to dream if not your self, right. Huhu.

Truely,
Truely,
"Big heart With A Fantastic Dream"

Appreciate

2009-04-24T11:02:00.000-07:00

Nerd..?Hehe

Assalamualaikum. Ellowpz

Nothing to do. Actually, my book crying as long as they want I read them. Huhu. I want to post one more entry. Give me one chance okeyh! What the precious thing in your life? I am not materialistic. But one more I do not want to lose and I do not want it far from me. What? Try to guess. Hehe. Of course my glasses!

I am looking nerd because my spectacles. Actually, I am specky girl while I was too young. I do still remember that I am in standard 5 my father invited me went to optometrist to check my eyes because I have problem to read. I like to read too much while I was in standard. I am struggle girl to get 5A's in UPSR. So, I was well-known as a book warm. Perhaps, too much reading and posture while studying was not in good condition. So, I was using the glasses untill right now. But sometimes, I think that, people need to appreciate their eyes and need to care what Allah gives to us. My beautiful eyes is get under cover by glasses. Huhu. Sometimes, I took contact lens if I am not rushing to go to class.

The moral of value is, we are need to appreciate what Allah lends to us. To get the dreams, we need to care what we have.

Short Story

2009-04-24T09:13:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum.Hye!

I try harder and harder to jott something down on this blog again. A few days I did not write any entry. Too much priority need to settle down. Actually, I was settle my first paper for Cross Culture's Subject. No comment and the scale I can answered the question also I cannot describe. Just surrender to God. However I was sacrifice and put my most excellent to answer. This night I want to have a rest and read short stories by surfing the google. I read short story about The Music On The Hill by Saki.

Actually, too much vocab I need to refer the dictionary. Very difficult but, I still confuse. I was certaintly success If I try harder. Fuh! This night, listening to music make me calm and of course my mind was in therapeutic condition. Uncounscious condition, how the times fly away. Next term, I will sit for semester 7. The time is like the water. Thesis projects is most important and money need to prepare. Money and money. Money is like the water too. How can I survive for my life without money. No money, no talk really?

Do you want to see my last moment picture while I was in standard 2, ..I think (1994)? Suddenly, I found this picture, so I uploaded on to this blog.
My father, my mum, my self and my siblings.
(Zaman Kejahilan Diri)

Simple Word To Say

2009-04-06T13:53:00.000-07:00

Assalamualaikum,Hye!

The chances come again to jott something down on this blog. May be I'm very busy to catch up; because too much blog and work to do. Proposal started. I just have 3 assignments more. Counseling Group report, Proposal and Cross Culture Education. On this Friday I will go to UKM for peers programes. I've invited Faiz, and Sa (my junior) to join me and we will go there together. This programme is a collaboration between Counselor: Along Hisyam, Ayahanda Mustapha and Ustaz Rosli. They are counselors from SMK Seremban Jaya. Experiences is teacher to whom are appreciate their life so much! Too much work and assignment not a blockage for me to get new experience!

Educator

2009-02-18T19:29:00.000-08:00

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Assalamualaikum,Hye!

For along time I didn't post new entry for sharing something information on this blog. The limited times needed myself to evaluate what is the most priority or what I need to settle first. Leadership is one of the most salient aspects of the organizational context. However, defining leadership has been challenging.

As a student, I have many responsibilities and my leadership to focus for my studying.. assignments,..programmes, responsibilities to others students and campus, my job and...huh! Management and commitment is need ! I'm tired to tell more about it,.because I believe, you all, also have many responsibilities to lead these! Please Pray to our God and I hope He will guide us to lead ourself smoothly to be a good leader too. InsyALLAH!

Grasp

2009-02-10T11:09:00.000-08:00

Iman wants to join me

Giving smile practice is need as a counselor. Hehe..is it?I used Zetty's handphone to take my new picture without my spectacle in the class 4P.

Assalamualaikum, Hye!

There are something good to express my mood. I didn't know how to explain. But, I would love to sharing on this blog even I'm using limited english words. This cloudless morning, make my heart very cool. After reading Group Conseling Strategies and Skills's book, my mood became very good. I got something after reading this book. That's mean, after studying the past subjects, like intervention, individual counseling, I need to combine and applicate what I have learn for the group. Everything is same, but what the different is how to applicate in group counseling. Actually, I hope too, God will keep up my mood to read this book. Simple english in Jacob, Masson and Havill book make me easy to understand even I'm not good in english.

Tomorrow, my class untill 7.00 p.m. Usually on Wednesday, make me tired. Probably, tomorrow I will be tired too. Normal! Start at 8.00 am till 11.00 a.m for ethic's subject, 11.00-1.00 p.m for educational group (lab) and 4.00 p.m- 7.00 p.m 4P (University's subject). I hate for the timetable arrangement, but no more choices, because I need to rush to pray at the limited time 4.00 p.m-7.00 p.m. Sometimes, we were asking for 4P (chinese lecturer) to stop the class early as long we get to pray for Asar.

Too much rambling, so, I need to cutt-off. I learn alots, about cutting off, drawning out for group, for tonight after reading that book. Hurm,.I just want to improve my english writing, so, my fingers started to dance. Hehe..! I want to take a nap.

Thank You,.

"Kampung Girl"

2009-02-09T01:38:00.000-08:00

Taraa!!! It is my favourite.

My Favourite as a village girl..hehe

Cencaluk
Vege soup

Fried Eggs and ikan kering..hehe

Assalamualaikum.,Hye!

Today make me very satisfied to serve my simple meals. The most I like is ulam-ulam because while I was at my village, it is my food routine especially petai and jering. Kak Fida went to market and she bought me some petai and Dewi returned from Dr.Ezani's garden with abundance of jering. She never forget to bring me some jering because she knows that I like to eat ulam-ulam. Thanks Dewi and Kak Fida.

While I was at Thailand, I learn from my granny and my late grand father to eat vegetables. I'm a vegetarian. My auntie told me like "Kambing a.k.a goat" because I like to eat green vegetables especially ulam-ulam. While I was 6 years, I ate petai and jering too much untill I had stomachache. From that, I like to eat this vegetables untill now. Mybe, If I have the chances to learn at oversea, I want to bring it too. Hehe. Tempoyak, cencaluk, budu and all village food style, I love to eat. So, I'm not too strict and not a food chooser. I eat everything that I can eat.

You can learn to eat these types of vegetables because you can get many benefits especially for your health; to maintain your kidneys and blood's circle . Not many teenagers like to eat this "ulam-ulam". For me, it is very delicious and you can try it.

Thank You,.

Welcome-welcome

2009-02-08T23:54:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum.Hye!

Yesterday reminds me to our projected. Making kuih"welcome-welcome a.k.a jemput-jemput"(named by Kak Fida). Hehe. Dila very excited to make it. It is best to put the chilli sauce. You can eat for your launch or tea time. There are some ingredients for "welcome-welcome".

Ingredients:

1. Flour
2. Salt
3. Vegetables (Carrot)
4. Oil

Thank You,.

Today and Tomorrow

2009-02-07T09:54:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum, Hye.

Holiday is the relaxation time but how can I manage the time effectively? Precious moment equally the golden time that I manage smoothly through my routine. Sometimes, my routine not so good, because too much time focus on the screen, thus gives effect for my eyes. However, this week I can feel that I flowed my holidays with the great meanings. Is it?Hurm..

Major Activities:

1. Settled down my presentation slides
2. Read (Continued for yesterday "Group Counseling)
3. Wrote in blog
4.Surfed an internet (read for blogs)
5. Cleaned my bedroom and washed my clothes
6. Cooked
7. Studied for english
8.Solah
9. Thinking..thinking..and thinking....

Minor Activities:

1. Chatting (Dicuss about " tut")
2. Ate
3.Read issues
4. Slept
5. Sang! (Singing and singing and sing song seng!)Hehe. Mybe to release!!!
6. Still thinking and thinking..huhu

Conclusion; thinking is none stop hobby for myself and I dont want to talk too much. If don't have important thing, I don't want to talk. So, think and think before you talk, Ohh..Afiti..Afiti!

..............................................................................................................................
It is among activities what I have done. It is all about for today.

My main plan for tomorrow is:

1. Reading "A Great and Terrible Beauty" written by Libba Bray
2. Doing my next assignments for
a) Video
b) Summary for video (I will try to do it, I don't want to pospone it again!!!)
c) Ethics assignment for grouping. How long I want to finish it, haaaaa?????. I will do and try to settle down this assignments tomorrow. I promise to myself!!!
d) No, more! Just finishing parts a,b,c..only! I believe that..I will pospone all my assignments again,. if too much plans!!! Try to make it slowly, and progressly. Lastly your assignments will finish Afiti! The reason that you don't have mood to do it, just rethoric! So, untill when??

Thank You,..

Peers

2009-02-06T21:56:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum,Hye!

My brother well known as Abang Adam helped me to handle peers because I'm not well. So, my plans was changed. Perhaps, I will meet my students next Saturday. " Human could plan, but Allah will determine what we have planned". Thanks alot to Abang Adam. He is very altruisme person that I was meet and good counseling applicator(hoho..! suit or not i'm using the word "applicator"). The criteria what he have makes me respect him as a good brother.

Sick..Sick and sick..!Bloody nose,.and hurt for my backbone.Waduh...!

Thank Yaa,.

Sharing For Today

2009-02-06T11:00:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum,Hye!

This sleepy morning make me very calm. The time is 3.05 a.m. I watched Hollywood film "Aquarimarine"at 1.00 a.m after reading Group Counseling's book written by Jacobs. I tried harder and harder to understand the contents from the book that I had read. It is enough for 5 pages for one night as long as I understand what I was read in english. Actually, I tried to read because Puan Junainah, want me get ready to fulfill my cognitive with new information about education group. Another delightful point is, I voluntered to read with the big hope, I want to improve my english as well. "No more excuse If you want it" is my belief. But do not doing something rushly because the aha will loose thus I need patiently. Everyone has target to get their vision. So, it is my target, this semester, I want to learn english via this blog. It is good to learn slowly than do not learn anything is it??..!

My proposal will be proceed. So, I had registered and my focus about experimental proposal. I hope, I will get good supervisor soon and I want to learn form her/him. What the most important things is, I learn from my work (proposal) and I will get big values from myself and I want others get something too soon. InsyaAllah!

Wow, very interesting I look for my roomate sleep. But, my eyes can't close. Tomorrow I will lead for peers group for presentation. A bit little sharing about the peers. I think, this semester is very struggles for my self to handle an older than me. The class will start at, 10.00 a.m for B's Group. I hope for tomorrow, they will different for the past class and I will give the mark for their module presentation. If their attitude showing bad, I will give low mark for them. Please alert for this!!! Actually, I hope they are giving their co-operation and morality and try to learn even they are older than me. For me, moral aspects is very crutial as a peer.

I sat on empty chair and I look for my result again and again. My (PNGK) is not too excellent. Just nothing interesting. I reflected back for my bad result since I was in third semester. Damn shit!!!I have big problems, and I'm in frustration untill broken my heart thus my result down. But, I got new spirit, for the fourth semester, I got dean list and fifth semester, I got it too. Because the third semester, my result (PNGK) very bad. I hope, I will grad at least 3.5 in my grasp because now my PNGK I didn't get 3.5 even my PNGS 3.5 and above. Third semester is my black experience but because the black, I got what I want right now. The most important thing, I will try my best to improve my achieve. I need to multitasking to apply what I had learn.
I hope too, my family will proud for my self and I will realize my aim. Because I am AFITI.

I think, I will stop and It will be continued next tomorrow. Now, my bed is totally is mine.

Thank You..,

Appreciation Night

2009-01-31T10:03:00.000-08:00

"United We Stand Devided We Fall"

Assalamualaikum.Hye!

I'm already finished my works. So tired right now. If I'm very tired, I will look the past album. I think it is the way to release my tension. Mybe, my cognitive is "TEPU" because too much work need to settle down!!!

He is My Principle. I'm respect him because he is fleksibel person. Enjoy, serious, dicipline, joker(hehe) and good adviser too...Everything lah!Hahaha En.Zul also my counseling lecturer.

En.Anizan is very funny. He is our Hostel Manager.

I got it. Now, everything became my memories

"An experiences will come If we want it and the chance to get an experiences is more easy,.but it will be difficult If we loose!"

All the pictures was taken on 2008 while I was in semester 4. Now, I'm in semester 6. Everything I was leave and put in my heart as the gold experience!

My Only God

2009-01-31T01:42:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum. Hye!

The unexpected moment for today really happened in my life. Perhaps, it is one reciprocation for me to strengthen back our relationship with my beloved teacher because for a long time ago we did not meet. I think, 4 or 5 years ago after I leave my school. Before this, we just massage via the phone and If I meet my teacher for sudden incident only. My teacher is very advanced. We communicate via the internet using YM. Truely, YM is very good channel to connect with my old friends. Cikgu Mad is among; my teacher that I'm very respect and he teach us alot of values aspect. We are success to get one stage to learn at university because teachers spirits that was sharing by him too. Now, he is studying for his master in leadership education. Good Luck for You!

"To get the knowledge, no limits in studying, and I will too. I want to study and learn untill I get the top stage in my field, and the world will know who is A-F-I-T-I. Education is my field. The only God is knowing the words of my heart. I will face all the obstacles. I will, Insyaallah!!! "

Love is Abstract

2009-01-30T07:04:00.000-08:00

"The Girl who is very hyperactive5--aduii..Peace!!!"

Assalamualaikum, Hye!

Love and belonging, makes our life perfect! Without love, our heart is totally empty. Love can be devide in many parts. It is depends to our self what we're thingking about the means of Love. If the love is fulfill in our heart surely, it is difficult to express because love is abstract.

My Love is:-

1. My God, because of Him,.I'm here right now.
2. Our Prophet (I can't describe who is him, but I will try to know and meet him soon,
(InsyaAllah)
3. My Self (Love to Much)!!!Do, You?
4. My Mommy, Papa, Mok (My Granny) and my siblings.
5. My teachers
6. My comrades
7. What I have and will have soon. I'm aprreciate what I have.
7. YOU! Who are reading this entry.

Thank You,.because give me your time to read this entry.

Pictures Memories

2009-01-29T09:57:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum.Hye!

Too much tension right now, my body feel very cold. While I'm doing; half for my assigment, urgently I need to stop. Headace is very critical. Seriously, I want take 2 tablet for paracetamol. Maybe I need a rest and turn off this laptop. But, I can't. My eyes still don't want to close. Too much assignments, and I don't want to waste my holidays. Time is everything. I don't want to do my assignment last minute, Cik Nani assignment still not yet; for the couple assignment. But, I'm still cool in doing what I do. I hate " KELAM KABUT". Laptop is everything too. I had open the past pictures.

Oklah.Enough! My grammar is too much broken. I got to go.

Thank You.

Greatest Memories

2009-01-29T00:02:00.000-08:00

My Friends and I will be the greatest educator soon. InsyaALLAH!

Good Counselor will be. InsyaAllah!Takbir!hehe

Strict prefect. This picture was taken by My Teacher: Lower 6
~Me in the middle~

Assalamualaikum. Hye!

I would love to share with you about the greatest moments in my life that I was through for 5 years ago. I'm strict prefect. I think the high risk guys hate me too much. If Dr.Jazimin in his blog told that he like a Hitler, mybe I'm the one. I'm very strict you know! No more consideration and no more excuse if the students undiciplines. I'm still remember the moment that I was agry to my junior ( boy) because he is the top gangstar in my school. I called his name loudly and he was make me out of control. He is the top problem student. No one can advice and my teacher scared to him too. I'm very sensitive with the students who are not dicipline. I'm very cruel is it?

With others student, I don't have any problems and we're close; they were good. I love too much my junior. So, that's why they are still know and remember my name untill now (truely). But, that boy made my heart sick! He like bullied other students, disturb the girls and always protest what teacher said. One day, I asked him why he was wear yellow shoes, and why not wear canvas shoes? I asked him softly, and told him as long as he do not do it again. But he is very stubborn. I got response from him and jeer me back. No more choice. Lastly, I can't controll my emotion. The fire burst! The empty hall echoed by my voice. Hahaha..So, funny,..I looked, like dicipline teacher. Lastly, the boy get out from the hall. His face became white. From that, he scared to me. I felt unfinished bussines, so I meet him, told him one by one and I'm not angry to him, but angry with his attitude. It's me..the strict prefect for 5 years ago.

Too different now. Afiti for 5 years ago not same Afiti for years 2006 untill now, . Tolerent is need and I will become a counselor. What I have learn, I'm appreciate so much, because It was teach my self too. And I feel so happy with my self now, I'm not stress with heart problems. If, I'm angry with someone, I feel so hurt. I don't like. Hate..hate! So, that's why, counseling is my aim and my heart like the calm waterfall (gituew).

Thanks God so much. I love to be an educator and I want them together with me to realize their dreams and I love to see my students soon. I want to be a professional teacher. From that stage, I can arrange my feet to get other stages. InsyaAllah. I live because my aim to help others as long they will success and be a good human being.

So, belief in God that human will develop and human behaviour will improve to get good manner. It's all about, "We Learn From Mistakes".

Sweet Moment

2009-01-28T14:10:00.000-08:00

I'm easy going and not shy to join them, but as a counselor will be, I need to learn and try to sit in other shoes.

This Corrando belongs: En.Azhar

Assalamualaikum, Hye!

Wake up early in the morning, reminds me to God that He still give me "The Chance To Live". Without His Chance, My fingers can't dances. Yesterday, My Friend, Zaim, told me about "Sakaratul Maut" on YM, and I need to watch the video. If not, I'm lost the chance. So, without think too much, I did! Oh, God, I think too much sins that I was done. The first impression, I'm not too scared while watching the video, but, my lips and my eyes close hardly.

"Kak Asssssss..........!"
"Yer,..Naper Fiti..?"

Kak As rushed close to me and I said that I'm scared. So, we watch that video together. I can't explain too much, but If you want to watch that video, you can tell me and I will give you for sharing. Perhaps, your empty heart, will sank after wacthing that video. Automatically, reflections from your heart begin. Huhu.

Enough for "Sakaratul Maut Video"

For a while, I was open my album in my laptop. It makes me returned to my moments that I never forget. " Times is Gold". The past time can't back but, you can flashback the memories and moments through your experiences. Like Me too. I like playing the outdoor games. For the last moment; was Four Wheel Drive with Upsi and UiTM lecturers in Hutan Lipur Pahang . My Friend and I was join them. The best experience make me appreciate and care about our nature.

Hurm, I need to stop because I want to pray. The time showed 6:25 a:m. See ya,.

Thank You,..

Stress is Normal

2009-01-25T12:35:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum,.Hye!

I would like to share with bloggers what I had read from the blog "My Confidential". I'm really hope You and I will get the interest input after reading this entry and personally can improve my english writing skill.

Without stress, life would be dull and unexciting. Stress adds flavor, challenge and opportunity to life. Too much stress, however, can seriously affect your physical and mental well-being. A major challenge in today's stress-filled world is to make the stress in your life work for you instead of against you.

During a stressful situation, the brain signals the release of stress hormones. These chemical substances trigger a series of responses that gives the body extra energy: blood-sugar levels rise, the heartbeat speeds up and blood pressure increases. The muscles tense for action. The blood supply is diverted away from the gut to the extremities to help the body deal with the situation at hand.

Stress is with us all the time. It comes from mental or emotional activity, as well as physical activity. It is unique and personal to each of us. So personal, in fact, that what may be relaxing to one person may be stressful to another. For example, if you are an executive who likes to keep busy all the time, "taking it easy" at the beach on a beautiful day may feel extremely frustrating, nonproductive and upsetting. You may be emotionally distressed from "doing nothing."

Too much emotional stress can cause physical illness, such as high blood pressure, ulcers or even heart disease. Physical stress from work or exercise is not likely to cause such ailments.

The important issue is learning how our bodies respond to these demands. When stress becomes prolonged or particularly frustrating, it can become harmful - causing distress or "bad stress." Recognizing the early signs of distress and then doing something about them can make an important difference in the quality of your life and may actually influence your survival.

Stress and Disease

Because the stress response couples physiological and emotional responses, it seems probable that stress can translate frustration into physical illness, but the precise mechanisms by which this occurs are not known. In some situations, as with tension headaches or upset stomachs, the connections appear fairly clear. On the other hand, both headaches and bellyaches can occur with no emotional provocation whatsoever.

The chain of causation is even less clear when it comes to more chronic and serious conditions, such as heart disease, hypertension, diabetes and cancer. The list of diseases linked to stress is almost endless, and includes asthma, allergies, rheumatoid arthritis, ulcers, ulcerative colitis and migraine headaches, among many others.

An important distinction that needs to be made. Any of these chronic illnesses can be made harder to bear by a stress-laden situation or an emotionally inadequate response on the part of the patient. On the other hand, it is no longer possible to credit older theories that specific emotional experiences or reactions actually cause these various diseases. On the whole, it seems most likely that stress plays a non-specific role in disease by throwing off the body's natural ability to heal itself.

Self Care

When stress occurs, it is important to recognize and deal with it. Here are some suggestions for ways to handle stress. As you begin to understand more about how stress affects you as an individual, you will come up with your own ideas on how to ease the tension.

Try physical activity. When you are nervous, angry or upset, release the pressure through exercise or physical activity. Running, walking, playing tennis or working in your garden, are just some of the activities you might try. Physical exercise will relieve that "up tight" feeling, relax you, and turn the frowns into smiles. Remember, your body and your mind work together.

Share your stress. It helps to talk to someone about your concerns and worries. Perhaps a friend, family member, teacher or counselor, can help you see your problem in a different light. If you feel your problem is serious, you might seek professional help from a psychologist, psychiatrist or social worker. Knowing when to ask for help may help to avoid more serious problems later.

Know your limits. If a problem is beyond your control and cannot be changed at the moment, don't fight the situation. Learn to accept what is for now, until such time when you can change it.

Take care of yourself. You are special. Get enough rest and eat well. If you are irritable and tense from lack of sleep, or if you are not eating correctly, you will have less ability to deal with stressful situations. If stress repeatedly keeps you from sleeping, you should ask your doctor for help.

Make time for fun. Schedule time for both work and recreation. Play can be just as important to your well-being as work; you need a break from your daily routine to just relax and have fun.

Be a participant. One way to keep from getting bored, sad, and lonely is to go where it's all happening. Sitting alone can make you feel frustrated. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, get involved. Offer your services to a neighborhood or volunteer organizations. Help yourself by helping other people. Get involved in the world and the people around you, and you will find they will be attracted to you. You're on your way to making new friends and enjoying new activities.

Check off your tasks. Trying to take care of everything at once can seem overwhelming, and as a result, you may not accomplish anything. Instead, make a list of what tasks you have to do and do them one at a time, checking them off as they're completed. Give priority to the most important ones and do those first.

Must you always be right? Do other people upset you - particularly when they don't do things your way? Try cooperation instead of confrontation; it's better than fighting and always being "right." A little give and take on both sides will reduce the strain and make you both feel more comfortable.

It's OK to cry. A good cry can be a healthy way to bring relief to your anxiety, and it might even prevent a headache or other physical consequence. Take some deep breaths; they also release tension.

Create a quiet scene. You can't always get away, but you can "dream the impossible dream." A quiet country scene, painted mentally or on canvas, can take you out of the turmoil of a stressful situation. Change the scene by reading a good book or playing beautiful music to create a sense of peace and tranquillity.

Avoid self-medication. Although you can use drugs to relieve stress temporarily, drugs do not remove the conditions that caused the stress in the first place. Drugs, in fact, may be habit-forming and create more stress than they relieve. They should be taken only on the advice of your doctor.

The best strategy for avoiding stress is to learn how to relax. Unfortunately, many people try to relax at the same pace that they lead the rest of their lives. For a while, tune out your worries about time, productivity, and "doing it right." You will find satisfaction in just being, without striving. Find activities that give you pleasure and that are good for your mental and physical well-being. Forget about always winning and focus on relaxation, enjoyment, and health. Be good to yourself.

InsyaALLAH, this entry will give me input.

Thank You,..

Relaxation Entry

2009-01-25T08:09:00.000-08:00

Thinking about My Life. What will happen for tomorrow and 5 years more?Ambitious,..
Wait and wait...

Assalamualaikum,.Hye!

Try to read erk,..

"Afiti, mu ni yolo ko tak dok gewe lagi?"

"Yola..takdok lagi, bakpo..mu nok tulung cari ko?"

"Tak dok benda lain ko nok tanyo, baso ni..tapi tok saloh pung,.."My heart said.

I laugh alone when remembering that question from my close friend. It is very privacy. My mum and auntie also asked me, either I have a boy or not. I think they are very serious to get "menantu and anak sedara baru". Woha..!I had explained one by one to them and they were respected me.

"Baguh la gitu gak, kalu tak dok gewe, belajar wi sungguh" Said my mommy.

"Tok leh Ti, sekure-kure keno pikir jugok sebab kalu kijo gak tok de doh nok pikir"Said my aunt, Jalilah.

I'm very introvert if they were discuss about this topic. But for another topic, I will become more extrovert. For me, too much plan and focus for my life. I'm also think about my own family and if I'm ready, the time will come. InsyaAllah. But I'm very different with my second brother. He was told my mum that he want marry when he is 24 years. My eyes stared to him and my mum very sporting and opened about this.

"Blaja tok lah mano lagi, pikir nok nikoh doh. Ore jate takpo nikoh lambat pung, mu ngaji wi berjaya dulu gak" Said me.

But I know he is very matured to think about his own life and family. He is very opened to discuss about this topic. He is too different with me; I want both of my life ( my ambition and my marriage) success and I don't like to share with others about this; all the short plan and long term plan was in my mind. But my brother said, he want married early. To discuss about this I'm very shy. Now, no need to discuss about this, because I think I know what the planning for my life, It is all in my heart and my cognitive. I can't share, because it is very meaningful for my life and I will wait for that; sunshine life. I don't want to explain too much. I'm waiting for the times to come,..

Too much thing I need to settle down lah. Who don't want to married? Normal lahh..If the time comes, go on jer lah..

What the character; I like?

Of course honest and sincere. I'm not too rigid in love. I like the humble person, low profile (at the same time, having own aura), have own personality, not poyo and do not hard nose, and the person who can guide me in ISLAM,. Just surrender to God lah! I'm pragmathic and storage style in love. (Counseling and Psyhology students will know what the mean). InsyAllah. Pheewit,.gatai!...why I'm too jiwang ni..???

Illustration picture

My auntie, Jalilah, married while she was 30 years (too late), my auntie, Mak Adik, 23 (on the way she was practicum) and her life also quite good.

Conclusion

" Tak kiralah kawin muda ke, kalau dah ada jodoh tak ke mana. Kawin awal pun, masih lagi berjaya capai cita-cita, Kalau dah terbuka hati, sampailah masanya, semuanya rezeki Tuhan"I'm always rasionalize my cognitive.

Just for sharing, not important entry pun. Huhu..

Xong Xi Fa Chai,
Thank You,..

~A~F~I~T~I

2009-01-24T09:28:00.000-08:00

This picture was taken : 2008

Assalamualaikum.., Hye!

A~F~I~T~I

A~Altruisme
F- Focus (I know what I do)/ Finder
I~Intuitive
T~Talkative
I~Intellectual (InsyaALLAH)

What I don't like:-

1.Smelly Body
2. Smoke
3. Liar (Make me traumatic)
4. The words "Tikam Belakang"(For me it is very over words). Mybe it is suit to use " Liar"
5. Speak too over and no points
6. Throw the food (because I believe It will "Mewarisi Papa Kedana")
7. The people who are think theirself is very perfect and others not perfect
8. Hipocrite
9. The people who are not respect the olders and teachers
10. Egoistic ( "Tak akui kelebihan orang,tapi selalu melihat kelemahan orang")
11.Over forced...You think you're comando@army?huhu

What the behavior need i said "Please". Rasional or not erk?

1. Please brushes your teeth and care your mouth (Smelly)
2. Please shampoo your hair and care about your ears
3. Please don't ask me what I'm doing, mybe I have different hobbies not same with You.
4. Please think before talk
5. Please don't blame people without any prove
6. Please forgive me If I'm wrong
7. Please don't call me Fiti but please call me "Afiti"
8. Please believe your self
9 Please God,..bla..bla..
10. Please do not disturbed me when I focus and doing my job
11.Please don't force me,.let me doing my job enjoyable

What My routine:-

1.Motivate and reflection my self
2. Pray to God after solah; If too rushing; just "Al-Fatihah and pray to (My parent and teachers)
3. Write
4. Think and plan for tomorrow and next days before sleep
5. Surf internet; reading the blogs
6. Cook- En.Zul will public canning If he know,..huahuahua..
7. Go to class
8. Read the book if I have the time. Even I page, I will read one page/day especially before sleep
9. Arrange my file on my desk after class
10. I'm believe to myself and I want to help people outside.

Bad episodes of Mine:-

1. First semester untill 3rd; always went to class late. But now, I changed it. Learn..and learn...While at school, i was very early.Now, I'm back to my self, try to early go to lectures.
2. Don't like for objective Q's for final.
4. Like to sleep too late. Can stay up untill morning.
5. Put the money "kok se kok dan"
6. Always forget where is my handphone~En.Aziz told it is necessary he get ready a box for my self in his office. I don't know. If at home, I will put on my desk, but, in his room, I will forget, where is my handphone. Hish..mybe he will tell me "nyanyuk"~uikk..
7.Even sleeping too late, wake up normally 6.05 a.m- 6.15 a.m. Sometimes, if wake up 6.30-6.40 a.m, it make me very rushing for directly solah Subuh and after that take a bathe and and I will sleep again.Haha..Arghh! Damn!If too late, no more sleep again, get ready to go to class.
8. Frusted in love and frusted for " Something"- Funny if I'm thinking again and again
9. My handphone LG was lost (2005)
10. Frusted for My result PMR, SPM

My self:-

1. Empathy
2. Complicated and serious doing assignment or my job
3. Easy Going
4. Understanding
5. Social Person
6. Talkative
7. Varieties of Interest and like to sharing
8. Extrovert
9.Like to think critically and explore, Like to think different with others
10. Like to eat (New Hobby) and cooking (starting my age 6 years I learn to cook Maggi from my auntie and until now, I like to cook, whatever lah..)
11. Always pray to God to meet someone
12.Will cry if too pity with others
13. Sometimes, I will be a joker "Gila-gila"-Faiz said, kadang-kadang skema, kadang-kadang gila-gila! Of course I will make his "Perut buncit pecah"-Hahaha!
14. Very respect to others and Positive for others abilities.
15. Sensitive for broken Malay Language
16.Etc..Just me know.."Biarlah Rahsia"

Thank You,..

~You Are..!~

2009-01-24T08:45:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum.,Hye!

This entry will be focus about "Friendship". I like to make friends with people around me. Based on the criteria I love to make friends.

1. Understanding
2. Honest and Altruisme
3. Moderate Person
4. Not Egoistic
5. Directly if I'm wrong
6. Happy Go Lucky and matured (Not mengada-ngada)
7. Realistic and rasional
8. Different hobbies because I love varieties personality;That's why I will know my friends uniquely
9. Not Individualistic
10.Low Profile but she/he have charism

However, it is the parts of criteria who is closed to me. I love to make friends with people around me and I'm not descriminism; because YOU ARE VERY GREAT and I LOVE MY FRIENDS

Thank You,..

Will Be An Educator and Counselor

2009-01-22T13:23:00.000-08:00

Zeti, Me( like pregnant women..iskk!), A'ai, Muniey, Iman

Assalamualaikum, Hye!

11.00 p.m, 23rd, January 2009. This picture was taken by practicum caunselor from UPSI. We went to SMKA Slim River to discuss with Mama, Puan Maimon for our assignment project. Our project will be held at school on 20th until 22nd February 2009. We will focus our project to gain reading skills and mind map skills for students form 1 and 2. Overall, the objectives is totally focus on academic. How to encourage the students to read inconjunction with NILAM's program? Our team have 10 members. I'm very proud when meet mama, and her spirit. I know her commitment and she is a very hard working counselor. The counseling room is very theraputic and many students like to go to her room. I can see the cultures in this school and the students very smart too. I hope, we can co-operate with this school's organisation for our programmes. It is one of our experience for us before practicum. Overall, our assignment has too much outdoor programmes that we need to handle. I hope, this program will be the one stage for us. It i will supervise by our lecturer, En.Aziz Yatim. He want, counseling students will be more advance and we will become the great counselor soon. InsyaAllah.

Thank You,..

P/s-I'm using this blog to improve my writing skill. It is the one choice that I choose for my self.

Night For Consumer Event

2009-01-22T10:48:00.001-08:00

~3 of Us..toing-toing~

~Lyn, Me, and Dila at SITC~

~Peace! My Roomate a.k.a Junior , Lyn~

Assalamualaikum, Hye!

After lenggang kangkung and window shopping around the campus, we went to SITC. "Culture Dance" showed by Sarawakian. Not many students around the SITC. I bought tudung. Promotion for the last day is started. RM 14 for 2 scarf. Very cheap!Dila want green colour and I selected for the pink+purple. I went to the brances and want to change for my Busana, but the seller was going home. So..,sad and I was called the seller and she said that I can change it for KHAT event soon. Here and now, no more choices, I need to be patient. My Busana is RM 1++, and I got RM 69 after the less. I will continued later. I want to read the thesis.

The poyoronos picture for this year..huhu

Thank You.

Food

2009-01-22T09:41:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum. Hye!

The time : 7.50 pm. I'm tired; for a whole day i fulfilled my time at campus. After class 11.00 a.m, i went to library. Book's Event changed my mood. But, not too much book were sold. No choices. I'm just look and not bought any book. 12.30 pm, I went to my lecturer's office because to settle down something. 2.00 p.m, I rushed for Zuhur at KDP and waited my friend for Ethic's disscussion at 3.00 p.m and read the thesis; written by my senior. Malek, Faiz, Chik, Aida, Niena, and I, selected study case for our assignment. At 4.30 pm, Aida and I went to "Consumer Event" at SITC. Many things were sold like scarf, food, t-shirt, shoes, jewelleries, busana, and etc. At, 5.20 p.m returned to my collague early because Aida was promised to exercise and played badminton with Aina and Suhana. I bought busana. Took a long time to make a decision to choose which one that I like. At home, too frusted because busana which is (L) size; not fit my body. Oh no,..! It is suit but, for my B_ _ _ o _ not suit..Astaghfirullhalazim.Hishhhhhhh!........ Maybe I'm too fat now.(Boonchit!)

After Asar, i switched on the laptop and surfed my blog. Many comments I got; but i turned off the laptop for a while and Dila, my junior said she was hungry. So, we suggested to cook "Beehoon Tomyam". I gave the suggestion; and Dila helped me to cut the onion, vegetables and all the ingredients. So, I started my experiments. Beehoon Tomyam finished. Get ready to eat.

Simple Ingredients:

1. Lemon-Grass
2. Cabbages
3.Tomatoes
4. (Daun Limau Purut)
5. Chillies
6. Lemon Juice
7. Onion (Red and White)-hehe
8.Young Ginger
9. Tost (ikan bilis)- at collegue don't have( chicken or meat)

1. Oil
2. Water

1. Beehoon ( Put the hot water to get smooth)

It is very simple ingredients (as a student) and the cooked style: Depend on situation and what we have at the time.

~ P/s I got something for today from Dr.Alya~

Thank You, for Today..,

The Black

2009-01-20T09:30:00.001-08:00

Assalamualaikum, hye!

Too much problems ruin in my cognitive. I can't detect what the problems; because it is very intuitive. Argh! What the problems? Make my heart leave with 1001 questions. Perhaps, something will happen...hurm,..Zeti and I, on the laptop. Now, 1.30 a.m. Singing, typing, and so on to release. Waduh!The status for my self at ym ( Jiwa kacau versi 1), meanwhile Zeti (Jiwa kacau versi 2). Wohaaa! Oh, yes! I know what the problem. My assignment, Cik Nani, not yet. Waduh..!Of course, i felt guilty. That only for this night. So, my assignment waiting for me. My status at ym change now. huhu

No more to express my feeling in this blog, because i'm already know what the cause of ( Jiwa Kacau). Finished!

Thank You,..

An Artist And Counseling Student

2009-01-19T07:14:00.002-08:00

Lyn with her project,..in studio,..!

Assalamulaikum, hye!

The time is already 10.30 pm. Actually, this idea come out , without thinking too much. I would like to share with bloggers about an artist student; my roomate. She is my junior, and we are sharing too much stories together. I'm happy because she is my roomate. Im never felt heart shifted with her and she is good. Hopefully, she will be a good educator soon. We are very understanding about personal. She said that "Akak" humor, like to make joke,.humble ( wah..gituw..!Too arrogant la pulak!hehe~im said in my heart). Sometimes, i'm quite ting tong..Haha.. She is like my sister too because she is among the best junior that i meet. She is very matured and not arrogant. Conclusion, we are sharing alot together. She likes to ask for my opinion and if she having any questions in her cognitive, she will ask me..she likes to talk and sharing too. So, to strenghten our relationship, i like to listen and understanding. The most important thing is, H-O-N-E-S-T is needed. We are laughing together and im also like to sharing with her...So, this semester, my room will see for our distinguishing mark between counseling and an artist,. student .

You know, she also likes to talk and ask me about counseling and psychology. Meanwhile, i like an art too because, my personality is S, A, E. (Social, Art, Enterprising). I think her personality is (A, S, E). Maybe. I like to listen about an art from her, and i'm very proud of her because she is having abilities in arts. I like to make combination about an art and counseling. I tried to explain what i was learnt from psychology and counseling aspects about the personality of artist . It is all about, "Sharing"..My english is too weak is it..? Never mind...! I believe i can fly..huhuhu...

Very fine and artistic art!

Enough for this night!..I want to do others activities for this cloudless night! My assignments is too much...!huhu..but, i still spend my time to write in this blog,..because it is ALL ABOUT MY HOBBY..,

Thank You,..

Night For Today

2009-01-18T10:42:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum,hye!

The time is 2.49 am. For 5 days im not write any issues for this blog. Taking a rest is most important for my self; to give a chance for my life feel free. Perhaps, im focus for my another blog. Huhu. I'm too tired because thinking many things and drafting for my target; what i need to improve for this year and how to manage it. I hope this year will fulfill with meaningful life. So, just surrender to Allah. I need to alert and corncern about it. I need to plan because the only 5 years, my age will 28 years. Ouch!Too old and i will loss if im not ready for it. I'm praying to God, as long as; this year will be my lucky year. I'm spending many times to read the blog.

Now, im addicting to read the blog, because i like to read the ways bloggers think. Maybe you're thinking it is waste your time is it?. My lecturer, En.Aziz said, if you do something stressly, you do not get anything, so you need to enjoy what you do. Eg. create the blog. Do not do it stressly. Just you know what you are doing. So, the conclusion, for what he said, we need to sincere and enjoy in what we do..! Besides, i will obtain many inputs for the issues. Im spending too much time for my hobbies. Because i like to do the job in my hobbies; it mean 2 in one. Surely, you will not understand what i mean is it?. Huhu..never mind! I write this entry after finishing the paperwork; for my assignment. And now, i read the bloggers input for today. I don't care if my english is too poor but, im trying to write. I like to speak english, but it is possible i will improve my english soon. I will sleep 3.30 am and got to go now. 8.00 am i need to go for "Counseling and Management Class". Okeyh,.Big hugs and kissing: the only one; for my self not you!.Wohaa..!

"Reading is the Bridge of Knowledge". So, read the blogs and books.

Thank You,..

"Success is Never End"

2009-01-13T05:42:00.001-08:00

Assalamualaikum, hye!

I love this poem too much. So, you're the lucky one because now you are reading this poem.

Success is not the triumph over regress, Success is the power to suppress.
Success is not the money or the fame, Success is, knowing you are still the same.
Success is not the power or the pride. Success is the knowing how to hide.
Success is not a gift or gain, Success is accepting and believing in your name.
Success is not a point or goal to seek, Success is, believing you have never reached the peak.
Success is "WHAT YOU THINK TO ARCHIEVE YOUR GOAL
AND YOU NEVER FRUSTED"

There is no rest for success. Success is a journey not a destination a year from now you may wish you had started today. Every beginner is a winner. Success is not escaping problems but facing them creatively.There is no success without sacrifice. Great success always calls for great sacrifice. Even failure can become an important ingredient to success. Failure just means that you have not yet succeeded. I’d rather change my mind and succeed than have my ownway and fail. Success without conflict is unrealistic. Any person can be successful on smooth seas, but it is the victory over the storm that gains true honor. Success doesn’t come through the way you think it comes; it comes through the way you think.Never settle for less than success. Success is doing something good. When you can, where you can, while you can. It’s better to attempt to do something great and fail, than attempt to do nothing and succeed. Success is not necessarily reaching your goal-but reaching the maximum possibilities in light of the opportunities that come your way. To keep your values on target remember to live so that when you “arrive”, you’ll have pride behind you and hope ahead of you. The success is truly the path to heaven. Success is never ending, because success is like the process of seed planting. Every creative contribution like a seed planted may bear fruit. Success finally is not what you have it is not what you do; it is who you are, and what you want to become of yourself.

Thank You,..

Besides My Name

2009-01-13T03:45:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum, hye!

I will try to write about my name.

"Life is beautiful, but to get the beautiful life, ouch..human needs to survive"

For the first in this blog, i would like to share about my self. I'm the eldest in my family. I have two younger brothers. True name, Nor Afiti, i think simple and unique. I don't know what the means of my name. Besides my name A-F-I-T-I is not giving any means. Just "Nor" bring the mean of "light". I asked my teacher (ustaz Rosli) while im in standard 3 ( 1993) what the means of my name. He said "altruisme". Just, him known because until now, do not have any person know what the mean of A-F-I-T-I. Im proud of him! I miss him, where is him now? He likes my grandpa because when im in standard 3, he was 5+ years. If i have the chances, i want to find him. Truely, i miss him soo much. Because, im still remember, the way he teach us in the class nicely and he never angry to us. He teach us to be a good student. Actually, my Siamist name; Fatmawaddy@Fatmawanni (my mommy said). But my granny call my name is Nik. My mommy call my name Long@Ti. Too much nick name that i have. Actually, the originally of my name is Nor Afifi. So, my auntie don't want people call me Pipi (check), so she thinks it is better to give Afiti.Enough for the name. I don't want to bubling so much like mak nenek.Huhu

If im not Nor Afiti,surely, i don't know who am i. I'm here because my name bring me to special identity and life. So, im appreciate my self enough. I feel so lucky. So, i need to survive because I'm <<< N-O-R-A-F-I-T-I B-T M-O-H-D B-A-S-R-I>>>

Too young. Im looking cute is it..? Haha..too much arrogant! My eyes looked at my brother in front of me. Mybe, my daughter or my son will look alike me too.(Think forward gitew!) 9 years (Standard 3)

22 years. Really? Don't look at my pimples (normal la beb). No more "Bedock"and no more "Lecu".(Mu pehe ke dok?)Hehe

Thank You,..!

Think

2009-01-12T10:04:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum, hye!

I love to read and i love to evaluate what the implicit content from the books and articles. I can't sleep tonight. Spending my time to read is better than waste! 2:08 a.m. I will stop now, i need to go for my bed!

" And do not turn your check (in contempt) toward people and do not walk through the earth exultantly. Indeed, Allah does al-Quran not like everyone self-deluded and boasful. And be moderate in your pace and lower your voice; indeed, the most disagreeable sounds in the voice of donkeys."

Al-Quran (Verse 31:18& 19)

Thank You..,

Enjoy Blogging!

2009-01-12T05:54:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum, hye!

This night, I would like to share about benefits of blogging.

1. Sharing knowledge to readers or internet surfers.
2. Enjoy with social life (make friend) and will meet someone to sharing your knowledge.
3. Strenghten relationship.
4. Update about the issues around us.
5. Upgrade more creativities to decorate the blog.
6. Spend our time with good activities. Not waste the time.
7. Improve writing skills.
8. Will know the bloggers personality
9. Teach us about patient attitudes and committed with our job.
10. The way to learn and study because nowadays people do not have time to read the books. So, blog is the best way to get the input.

Thank You..,

Heart

2009-01-11T19:32:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum, hye!

"God
gives a pair of eyes to see,
gives a pair of ears to listen,
but God gives us one heart as long as we can find one more heart
So,..who is the owner of my heart,..
perhaps, he also want to know who is the owner of his heart...
So, im praying to my God, hope He will gives to me my good "MAN"

This sentences make me think twicely. En. Aziz my lecturer showed movie maker to us. He showed his students creativities. So, as the assignment, he guides us to make movie maker depends on our creativities. Either we want to make the movie about motivation, reflection, love, friendship, religion or what else..it is depends to our creativities. But the sample from my senior very touching!

With Love,
Thank You..,

TeAch and GuiDe Me

2009-01-11T12:48:00.000-08:00

Assalamualaikum, hye!

This blog will be my channel to learn writing. I need to learn english and i hope this blog is the one way to encourage my self to love english. So, i hope bloggers who are master in english will help me if any broken language "English" from me. A-F-I-T-I

Thank You..,